so trouble comes in pairs

we took bay-bay for his MRI and it was very bad news -- cancer --something called chondro sarcoma -- it has compressed his sprine. we are having surgery tomorrow to try to give him at least a year but not gurantees. mike and I decided since we don't have this option for onyx (or any for that matter) - -we have to give bailey all that we can. They will take the tumor and some of his discs out -- this will hopefully allow him to walk again. The cancer is a nasty one (anyone tired of me saying this?) -- they can not get it all and it will be back. I am so done with cancer. So within a week -- my two boys have been diagnosed with cancer -- both cancers are aggressive and chemo and radiation are not an option. yeah, I am done.